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dated 20 May 2003: Saturday d.d. 17 May 2003 stood in the Telegraph the following article by Ellen and Nico (with beautiful photo but unfortunately I can not copy) and applies the update as how now with Ellenu000d (remember that last year this time it was thought that Ellen summeru000d of 2002 no longer would pick up). I had previously written that the name of theu000d According to Ellen was refused to call in the website article, but Renèu000d Stone horst, journalist who wrote this article, told me that heu000d This never has refused, but it didn't fit into a personalu000d story a name or website address. And I think a wholeu000d plausible reason. So my apologies that I hereby offersu000d earlier mention of a refusal. Furthermore, Mr Stone horstu000d given me permission to post this article however, despite the copyrightu000d on this article. For which thanks. Ellen/Nico also from this place a whole entire beautiful day Wednesday.
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The Telegraph: d.d. 17 May 2003:
u000d The life is finite, but love can be immortal. As in the case of Ellen van Zanten and Nico van der Ven. She is after a barbaric struggle of largely demolished by the ovarian cancer for seven years, he has asked her to marry. "Because I Want nobody else." Next week they marry. Ellen and Nico keep each other dearly ... and of life.
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by RENÉ STONE HORST
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UTRECHT, Saturday
In the Milleniumnacht he had already asked her. Getting Married? Ellen had a little laugh, gegniffeld, to marry she had not really thought, the question surprised her. In addition, she had not thought possible that he would like to bind again.
Nico had some piqued his marriage proposal was referred to as stated earlier, responded-it has already played a long time by his head, no it was not a hollow note. He had the knot, the question on what a symbolically laden moment as the beginning of a new century, but for his feeling there was a somewhat lukewarm shower over him. After both had left the subject a few years.
But next week, Wednesday 21 may, then marry them-living stylist Ellen van Zanten (43) and her Utrechtse bloemenman Nico van der Ven (31). In the wedding room of City Hall Zuylen, in the Cathedral City. And then a feast follows, in Laren, a dear friend with space in and around her cottage. There is a guest bed, in which Ellen a few hours can recover from the fatigues and the emotions that there undoubtedly are. "I think", says Ellen, "that I will have to cry a lot." There will bemany friends and acquaintances. "They are the same names on the guest list for when I am no longer in future, possibly. I cannot turn to the facts: you never know, of course. But I assume that the good keeps going, that is my setting. "
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u000d Ellen ovarian cancer , who in 1996 was established and since then by deep ravines of operations and experimental chemotherapy is gone, wellen now the tears. It is located in an almost-fetal position on the bank, supported by pillows. She has pain, the disease is almost two and a half years have been, but is now dormant ´ ´ feel again. Her belly plays on, it burns in her right hip, they ondefinieerbaar a smooth with a natural fragrance lubricates.
"I have very bad at the time, when it went with me, against Nico said: I would go away if you understand the ´. Heus, we can also remain friends. We can see each other best a few times per week. I just keep the administration of the flower trade. Go quietly, beginning a fun life. It is with me every day to warm up a pitcher, a pill, another pill and another pill, sleeping, medical examinations and treatments-I now have a time or fifty in the hospital. But he said immediately, a little annoyed: ´ El, please keep on about! I don't want road and I'm not going away. I want you, there are been before you girlfriends; But what you have as a woman in your pink, they had in their whole body yet. I love you, I would like to no one else. "
Also the nurse of the hospital specialised in the treatment of cancer, when it had very bad went with Ellen van Zanten, against Nico said something similar. But from the angle of the outsider. She had him pointed out the gravity of life with such a sick woman, on the sacrifices that he should make, and hinted at a pond full of young healthy fish with a carefree future. But although perhaps well-intentioned, were the words in the eyes of Nico van der Ven dom, at least ill-considered. The nurse was parried with a sneer. Nico ´ s eyes flames again, he can't stand it.
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The comments of outsiders, who count themselves to friends or acquaintances, go far-sometimes very far, also know Ellen van Zanten. "I got responses like that I was glad that there is a ´ man for me was ... meant that it was ´ particularly was that there was still a man, a woman with me so ill cancer, wanted. And even wanted to marry. But Hello, I'm not a throw-away product! Nico marries not with me from a form of compassion, whatever is thought. Hemarries because he keeps me dearly. And I him. "
Nico van der Ven is on the point of the upholstered armrest of the bank. He nods. The young Utrechter looks unperturbed, is no prater as Ellen. But he talks because they seek from him. His glance is transparent, his words are without fuss-straightforward, without double bottom, straight from his heart, on the man. "We have fun together. All seven years. Ellen never complains about her illness. Of course there are difficult moments, but then they don't even complains or wails. She tackles the problem, if there is a problem. I don't know if I would have endured with someone who the whole day in the spell of her illness. I have a case, I must keep my head. Ellen is excited, cheerful, she has humor and she gives me energy. No, I don't want nobody else ... and marry you do but once in your life. "
"And of course, we both realize that they eventually would not be able to save. But where is that ´ eventually. We are not at the address down, there are still possibilities, there is still hope, who knows there is suddenly found something, or saves a therapy suddenly do. It can still go well for a long time-who knows what cool things we still have in the offing. " He looks to Ellen, his eyes are on love. "We have even bought a caravan, in Zandvoort. We will very much. "
Ellen van Zanten, daughter of Jack van Zanten, in 1989, d. nationwide known organizer of the Amsterdam 700 ´ ´-football tournaments, is the last survivor of the so-called Ovipec-therapy. That was by the Antoni van Leeuwenhoek hospital in Amsterdam (AvL)u000d in a relatively short period of time-from 1996 to 1998-when tested a handful of patients with metastatic ovarian carcinoma ´ ´ eitheru000d ovarian cancer. It was a radical removal in three phases of tumor tissue, using surgery, washings with very high dose chemotherapy and a stem cell transplantation. Ellen brought out the nationwide news. "It was a horrible heavy therapy, actually inhuman heavy. At the time, when I had survived the treatment first, more dead than alive-I really went through a hell-I was angry that the Van Leeuwenhoek stopped the treatment. Now I understand something better: this can you people the recitals, how sick they are, actually not. The six other women who participated are now all died. The experiment was just as bad as the cancer itself ... "
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Since two years, Ellen van Zanten all new chemotherapies, who suggested her doctors, her AvL-rejected. Doctors, who also said they could no longer operate her. Therefore she has deliberately chosen for nature medicine and nature a treating physician. "My body", she says, "that was extremely heavy chemotherapy ofthe Ovipec-choose treatment for hair and survived with difficulty. I have a few times on the brink. But the cancer eventually returned, despite everything. You don't think that something less heavy chemotherapy effect? This body laughs about! "
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u000d "Beyond that, everything inside is broken. I still have two feet on intestine, everything is raw, my gut flora is completely disrupted. I don't even more chemo survive. It is important that I get my immune system strengthened, what more food can endure, to know what my 45 kilo screws and therefore get more energy. I know: it is one step forward and back a few steps backward. But I go by. Despite all the ups and downs. I sometimes say: my profession is survival. " In that picture also fits that Ellen, in what a better term, two years ago started a store in Garden decorations. She climbs up from each fall.
To achieve that again she swallows now much vitamin preparations, as well as German kankerremmende resources and painkillers from nature. The low table at the bank is full of them. They are resources that are not reimbursed. She is under treatment of a natural healer from Vinkeveen, which her withu000d ´ ´ ozone therapy treats to strengthen her blood cells. "He promises me nothing, I think that some others did though: too real-money seekers! But he said: You should see yourself as an almost ´ plant death. If I were your vastgrijp too firm, then hot dog you. But I put a stick at you down, are you going to feed and we'll see if you can come back. I have confidence in this practitioner and I feel the effects. No, I imagined the not me, it is not so that I-like so many people-everywhere as a daas back loop. I appreciate the difference between hocus pocus-clay tea drinking and serious forms ofu000d alternative treatments. Oh well, I have already experienced so much in that area. "
Dorina of 38 years with three children ("We were friends") had breast cancer. Yvonne of 44 years with two children suffered from throat cancer. Bep and Riek had colon cancer. Ellen van Zanten had intensive contact with them and with more pervasive. Sometimes also viau000d a site for cancer patients on the internet, but also personal. "It was sometimes very deep. Many have now died. It is terrible. I see so many people. Sometimes that very quickly. As with Petra, a woman of 38 which there seemed much less bad than I to: a month after the last contact we got all of a sudden a obituary. "
They suddenly laughs: "And I see what cynical than that women as Connie breukhoven and Patricia Paay on tv, which only deal with anti wrinkle creams, botoxinjecties and other mess. Then I think: shut upyet not so about Orange skin! Really, if that women get a disease such as cancer, than they would save the not so. "
However, cancer is also a good side, know Ellen. "Although some people Shun you because you have cancer, deepened the relationships also. I formerly raced over everywhere. Now no more. I am more quiet at things. I have intense contact with my children, for whom I used to regularly had insufficient time. When I just knew I had cancer and was in bed, layers, Abilities and Jack of my children, when five nine, Sanne and thirteen year around me; It was super. And since we have so many talk if we had never done before. Now we are seven years is the intensity only increased. " They let the girl of the home care and then says: "if I don't red, then I hope I die in my sleep. I think I've earned. No, I don't want to die with people around me, who see that I have pain. That is my fear. "
But Wednesday, marry Ellen and Nico. The life will be a party. "It is the most beautiful day of my life. That I know. Yesterday I had new results will get, but I said that I do not want to hear them. It affects anyway-whether they are good or bad. And you know, the day before yesterday I managed to buy a wedding dress, a fairytale dress. With grommets and light blue sequins. Nico has a nice light blue shirt found under his costume. You know, if I now there again talking about ...u000d This marriage gives me wings!!!!!!
Noteu000d editorial: another beautiful story of someone who recovered fromu000d ovarian cancer with the help of diet Marjan. and supplementation is that ofu000d the story of Tineke about her choices when ovarian cancer and the story of mw. N.N. which, likeu000d Ellen already have a quite time fights against her ovarian cancer with ifu000d support diet and nutritional supplementation.
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